We are trying to be okay we are trying to be alright but seeing him with her just don’t feel right

You know when you are confused about something, well when I am confused about something I weigh up the Pro’s and Con’s about the situation to see the better side of things. Okay as I referenced before that I was going to do a post about Harry and Taylor and just how much it has confused the fans putting them in a frenzy. Let us weigh up the pros and cons of Taylor Swift and Harry Styles shall we to help with our decision on them and their relationship. Remember this is made with nothing but Love.

CONS

1.       The Fact he denied the relationship on three separate occasions

 

Yes Harry did deny their relationship but he also denied his relationship with Caroline Flack Last Year when in fact he was dating her. The factor is that he lied to his fans to protect himself and the relationship with Taylor.

 It is wrong to lie (confession: I stole the cookie from the cookie jar) especially to the people that look up to you as an idol, and inspiration. While Harry is a very private person he doesn’t flaunt his relationships, Taylor enjoys coming out in her relationship she did confirm being with Harry yet no one believed her.

  2.   Love Songs Vs Break up songs

It is believed that they have been dating for a while, and while in the love struck stage they will be expressing their love the only way they know how by writing a song. BUT when they break up we will hear not one but two! Break up songs about how their hearts have been trampled on and torn out.  Being two great artists how will fans react to break ups songs.

(We don’t want break up songs but we don’t want dumb love songs either)

 

3.    Media coverage

I have had my eye on the publicity as all this unfolds to see what sort of bull we get to read just so they can get paid but it is getting a bit bizarre, Just this week I walked past an article that read (Taylor swift Pregnant it’s Harry’s) calm down stop sharpening your pitch forks for just a second. It is not true, (we hope)

Today I read (Harry Styles put a ring on it) HAHA Engaged! What

But now Directioners are making rumors that Taylor Called Niall Names, and saying rude things to fans just to make more people hate her that isn't fair.

4. Harry is the one with the famous girlfriend. Unlike Elle, Danielle , And Perrie (sort of) ,Taylor in fact has been in the music scene for a long time, this is why there is going to be many pictures and articles about them together. Well more than there is already is. Stuff to look forward to at least.... (Note sarcasm)

5.    The Fans turn on each other

We are here for the music and I generally respect both artists they are great but there are awful comments from both fan groups. “Directioners deserve cancer” “Taylor I will Kill you if you touch Harry”, No this isn’t the script for the new Hunger games although it is very worthy for it.  People shouldn’t start fighting because two of our favourite artists are dating.  We like an artist for a reason we respect them because their lyrics or because they are down to earth so when Two people start dating the fans should respect them even though it does hurt to see it you don’t have to support it or even like them together by not sending hate that is a start. 

6.   She has the label of Innocent (due to her string of relationships) and the endless break up songs (can’t she deal with break ups like everyone else without the songs) Even Miley Cyrus commented at Miley Cyrus gets called a slut everyday and has been with her boyfriend for 3 years and they are engaged.

Taylor Swift gets called inspirational and elegant everyday and has been with over 13 from the past 3 years. But if she is so innocent why has she had so many break ups but she has had her heart broken she deserves a guy to treat her right.

 Everyone knows Harry will be the perfect boyfriend buying her 23 cupcakes, an expensive hand bag, and quality time with the cupcake, his hugs and kisses. 

Everyone saying they will break up soon and she will write about him

 (Don’t judge her from the past though).

http://taylorswift.wikia.com/wiki/List_of_Taylor_Swift's_ex-boyfriends

check the past out for yourself ...

 

7.  In fact, says Michele Chalfant of Open Hearts Matchmaking, said maybe Swift should stay away from stars altogether.

"I would like to see her with someone a little bit older than her, and someone outside the entertainment world--maybe in the business world," she tells, "She's been dating people in the spotlight and that's just stress for her everywhere you look.”
 OH yes Stress! There is an age difference between them her 23 and him 18.

Pros

 

1.       Looking at the photos of Harry and Taylor and they are holding hands, and skipping through fields of roses ( hasn’t happened yet), they haven't let each other out of their sights.  Both of them enjoying the sights of the world while taking time out to pose with both his and her fans.

2.        It’s entertaining

Not the relationship it isn’t entertaining itself it is the songs that are coming out, our favourite you tuberGlozell, wrote her own hit it is so entertaining I saw this and laughed till I cried.  Watch and laugh together with me:

 

But then there is this video by simply spoons which is constructed beautifully with look a like’s  from both sides of Taylor and Harry and is so entertaining as well.

Be entertained here :

 

3. Maybe He wants a relationship

As much as it hurts the fans to see him with someone,

Fan’s did say they wanted to see him Happy, come on Louis, Zayn, Liam, Niall are all happy. Look how Happy Niall is, but being Famous at day time when it comes night it’s good to share with someone.  Harry being the youngest in the band he did have to grow up really fast so you see why he wants to slow down just a bit.

 

 

4. When Harry and Taylor do break up he is going to need a shoulder to cry on and same with her she is going to need a shoulder to cry on do we have any volunteers..

 

5. Harry will always be a little cupcake

 

 

6.   They don’t know about us, written by Harry Styles, So it was written before the whole Harry and Taylor thing but Maybe he was trying to tell everyone in a different way, let us listen to this:

 

line 1- I just wanna tell the world that you're mine girl

 

Line 2-But I bet you if they only knew
They will just be jealous of us

 

http://au.ibtimes.com/articles/406636/20121120/one-direction-harry-styles-taylor-swift-death.htm

 

Line 3- they don’t know what we do best that’s between me and you our little secret

 

In conclusion, with 7 negative comments and 6 positives,it seems that nothing good is going to come out with of Harry and Taylor with both Demi and Miley hating on the relationship.The fans ( we feel you) Even Eminem’s Daughter Hailey expressed her hate of the relationship. Pass the Ice cream down, with the distance, the world tours that they are close to time will run out with them together and with her history of famous boyfriends only time will tell.

But Taylor Swift has a good point.